Women have many Brakes that prevent them from getting horny. They need to have those Brakes removed before they can become horny.
Every woman is different, so what gets one girl aroused might not get another girl aroused. But there are a few steps you can take to make her feel turned on and hungrier for sex than ever before.
1. Make her feel special
Women are very sensitive and they need to feel special when they’re in your presence. If she feels that, it will arouse her and make her want you more. You can do this by giving her little compliments and making her feel beautiful. You can also tease her in a flirty way. You can also lick her inner thighs, outer lips, and the top of her clitoral head.
During this time, don’t forget to kiss her. You can also try lightly caressing her ears, neck, arms, and chest. Just be careful not to go too fast. If you rush into sex, she will not be turned on. Instead, take your time and enjoy foreplay.
Remember that everyone has different erogenous zones, so you might have to experiment. For instance, the back of the neck and earlobes might not be as arousing for her as the clitoral hood. Therefore, it’s a good idea to ask her what her arousal zones are. This is a great way to get to know her. Also, it will help you know the best spots to hit when you’re ready for sex.
2. Listen to her
Oftentimes, when it comes to getting turned on, women want mental stimulation as well. A good way to get her going is to talk sexy. Whisper dirty things in her ear, or even better: tell her everything that you fantasize about doing to her!
It’s also important to listen to her. If she’s making small gasps, moans, grunts or even screams, these are all signs that she wants to be touched, either by you or by someone else. Touching her neck, caressing her ears or nipples, and gently kissing her are all ways to get her completely turned on.
She also might want some clitoral stimulation, and that’s when it’s time to use foreplay. Make sure she’s in a comfortable position, and try some of these clitoral stimulating techniques.
3. Make her laugh
Women go gaga over guys who can make them laugh. This makes them feel good and helps solidify their bond with the guy. This is one of the most important things that you can do for her if you want to get closer to her.
One of the most common ways to tease her is by mimicking her in a caricatured manner. This shows her that you are interested in her and that you are having fun. It also gets her to start laughing because she will try to prove that you are wrong by justifying herself or by trying to clarify what you said.
You can also make her laugh by making a joke or a silly observation about something that is happening around her. This is especially effective if you can do it in a way that doesn’t offend her. Self-deprecation is a great way to show her that you can be funny without hurting her feelings. This shows that you are confident and comfortable in your own skin, which is an attractive trait in a woman.
4. Make her feel safe
Women need to feel safe physically and emotionally before they can fully let down their guard, get turned on, and have amazing sex. This is why it’s important to ask her what she likes and how she wants to be stimulated, and to read her body language cues. For example, she might prefer more verbal foreplay such as whispering sweet nothings into her ear or touching her neck and shoulders.
If she’s having a hard time reaching orgasm, try stimulating her clitoral hood with your fingers or tongue before penetrating her. You can also touch and massage the “U spot” (the sensitive area at the top of her inner labia) and tease her by kissing and nibbling her lips.
It’s also helpful to remember that sexual arousal is a two-way street and that she can’t be aroused by you if she’s not feeling it for you. Be patient and keep trying new things until you find what turns her on. It might take longer than you expect, but it’s worth the wait to have great sex with her.
5. Let her know that you want to be with her
Women have a harder time reaching orgasm, and this is why it’s important for them to get a little foreplay going first. They need to have their Brakes removed (things like stress, hormone issues, guilt, shame, and feeling unattractive), then experience something that turns them on (a romantic moment, a kiss, a guy that cares about them, sexy memories, a massage, or getting a bit tipsy).
For example, if you’re already physically close with her, try touching her shoulders, knees, or hands during foreplay. This will feel intimate and sensual, while also sending shivers of sexual anticipation down her spine. Make sure you’re keeping eye contact too, which is another big turn on for most women.
While every woman is different, most become aroused by masculine traits and behaviors. Whether you’re dating her, on a long term relationship or marriage with her, it’s essential to keep that masculine vibe going strong. You can also try making her laugh, which will release those happy hormones and make her feel even more attracted to you.
